Wednesday, May 20, 2009

DeYoung: Defining Decency Down

Here's a great post at First Things from Kevin DeYoung, looking at online discourse.

Kevin attacks both the jerk problem ("Hell hath no fury like a scorned blogger with too much free time") but also the nice problem ("It is possible to be too nice, especially when eternal truth is at stake").

An excerpt:
Here, then, a little advice for the tough guys: Save the big guns for the big issues. Don’t try to die on every hill; the hills are crowded already and you only have so many lives to lose. Be courteous wherever possible (Col. 4:6). Drop the rhetorical bombs and launch the satire missiles only as a last resort. Be patient with those who really want to understand (2 Tim. 2:25). And remember, it’s ok to have an unarticulated thought (Prov. 18:2).

And for the tender ones: Dare to not qualify. Don’t pad your criticisms with fluff praise (Gal. 1:10). If you have affirmations of substances, go for it. But don’t be a self-protective flatterer. Don’t be afraid to be misunderstood. Don’t soften a needed jab of logic. And when you get an ad hominen right hook, don’t take it personally (1 Cor. 4:3–4).

And for everyone: please, please argue with actual arguments. Don’t just emote or dismiss the other side with labels. Explain why your side makes more sense. Try more persuasion, less pouting (2 Cor. 5:11). Give reasons, not just reactions (Acts 18:19).

Read the whole thing. And may all of our blogging, commenting, tweating, Facebookin', etc. reflect this wise and biblical counsel.