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Sunday, June 18, 2006

Financing an Adoption

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"Religion that is pure and undefiled before God and the Father is this:
to visit orphans and widows in their affliction,
and to keep oneself unstained from the world."
(James 1:27)


"Our understanding of Christianity cannot be better than our grasp of adoption."
(J. I. Packer, Knowing God, p. 202)


One of the difficulties in adoption is often securing the finances to do it. Adoptions are usually expensive. An average domestic adoption often costs around $15,000 and international adoptions are often $25,000.

I've tried to pull together some resources for those who are interested in seeking some aid or donating their money.

The Local Church
If your church doesn't currently have any adoption ministries, perhaps you're called to start one.

FamilyLife.com offers some guidance for how to make it happen: Four Basic Steps to Starting a Local Church Based Orphan's Ministry.
  1. Identifying Seed Families
  2. Preparing and Fertilizing the Soil
  3. Bearing First Fruits
  4. Becoming Deeply Rooted in Ministry
Life International has helped a number of churches start Adoption Funds. They can help you answer questions like:
  1. How does an ‘Adoption Fund’ fit into my church’s vision/mission?
  2. How does Life International help the Church establish a Fund?
  3. How does a local Church get started establishing an Adoption Fund?
Examples of adoption ministries operating out of the local church are the MICAH Fund and the LYDIA Fund (both of Bethlehem Baptist Church).

Interest-Free Covenant Loans
The ABBA Fund provides adoption financial assistance to Christian couples who are "called by God to enlarge their family through adoption, who are committed to train and educate their children in accordance with Biblical principles, and who need financial assistance in order to complete the adoption."

Such families may enter into a "covenant agreement" with The ABBA Fund, whereby they covenant to reimburse the ABBA Fund in manageable monthly payments. The wonderful thing is that they provide this financial assistance without any interest! (You can apply or donate at their site.)

Life International also offers a similiar interest-free covenant loans. (You can apply or donate at their site.)

Grants Through Foundations

There are a number of foundations that offer grants for adoption. One is Shaohannah's Hope, founded by Steven Curtis Chapman and named after his daughter. Their average grant is about $4000. On last year's "All Things New Tour" he raised over $2 million for adoption grants. (You can apply or donate at their site.)

Life International also offers matching grants--so if a friend gives you $50 toward the adoption, it becomes $100.

More foundations and programs can be found here. (As with anything on the net, it goes without saying that it's wise to look into these programs before applying or donating.)

Benefits in the Workplace
Some employers offer adoption benefits to their work-life policies. For more information on this, see the Adoption Friendly Workplace Program. As the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption explains: "By offering adoption benefits, employers can provide equity for all their employees who choose to create families – whether through birth or adoption. And with less than one-half of 1% of the employee population using these benefits in a year, the package is extremely cost effective considering the benefits the organization gets in return."

Tax Credit
Eligible parents can receive the adoption tax credit--up to $10,000 subtracted from your tax liability. Speaking from experience, it can be a tad confusing as to what you get back and when, but this overview and this info sheet are pretty helpful. One way to go would be to get a covenanted loan from the ABBA Fund and then use your tax return to repay them.

I hope this helps. If you know of other trusted sources or have other ideas, feel free to include them in the comments section below.


12 Comments:

Blogger Anglo Bandido said...

My wife and I adopted a wonderful young woman last year. It took us six years to do so, after being her foster parents for her first five years. She'll be twelve this September. We are very proud of her.

Though we'd have been willing to spend much more for the privelege of being her mom & dad, the total cost was about $3,500, which is deductible at both the state and federal level.

We became foster parents out of a desire to help with all the kids without parents or whose parents were parasites on the community.

We elected to go through a Christian foster care agency in Southern California called Serenity. We had no intention of adopting. Serenity and many other such agencies are set up to help potential adopters to navigate the jungle that calls itself "child protective services." They are anything but child protectors or services.

But the point is, every state will have such Christian agencies if you will but look for them. And they are very helpful and in desparate need of foster parents.

6/18/2006 10:52:00 PM  
Anonymous Eric said...

18 months and $25,000 poorer (along with many prayers and frustrations) we have been blessed with a beautiful daughter being added to our family. Thank you so much for offer this information out to a world of people who sorely need and can benefit from it. I will pass the post around...
Bleesing to you...

6/18/2006 10:53:00 PM  
Anonymous Eric said...

Oh and one more thing...we were very blessed and prayed that the funds would be there and whatever we needed, through God's providence, we had a just the right time...

6/18/2006 11:20:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks, Justin, for posting these links. My wife and I are in the process of adopting our second child and are excited to see how God will provide us with the resources (because we certainly don't have the income).

Phil B.

6/19/2006 09:28:00 AM  
Blogger Chris L. said...

Thanks for posting this information Justin. My wife and I adopted our son from the Philippines three years ago. The 2.5 year wait was well worth it. We are now awaiting the phone call to go get our two year old daughter from Haiti.

Many of our extended family are praying about adopting as well, and I know this information will be of great help to them.

6/19/2006 01:10:00 PM  
Blogger danny2 said...

very helpful!

and perfect timing too.

6/19/2006 02:17:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The tax credit is a really big deal, and it is now almost $11,000 per child, and can be spread over as many as 5 years if you don't pay that much tax anyway.

Also, pricing an adoption is really difficult because you end up spending a lot to have children the other way, too, but people don't often keep track.

I've never heard of someone who adopted saying, "wish we had spent the money a different way."

6/19/2006 07:45:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for this information. My wife and I are in the adoption process right now. It has been 11 long years of infertility, struggles, and hardships. But, God is good and we cant wait for the time when we finally have our own child!

6/20/2006 01:27:00 PM  
Blogger John said...

You also might look into adopting out of the foster care system. We adopted 2 children last year working with a group in TX called Homes4Good. Really, the only expenses were the lawyer fees for the final paper work, which amounted to only $3000. If you know an attorney in your church, they might donate their signature to you for free.

This is a real option and very much needed in our society. For example, when we were licensed for foster care in TX several years ago, there were over 18,000 kids in the foster care system in our state alone. FYI. Immitate your Father.

6/20/2006 05:53:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We're in paperwork for child number 4, and are praying for the money to come in for the next step in the process. We look forward to seeing what God will do! We have been blessed by our other 3 (adopted) children.

6/20/2006 09:48:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

We adopted a son 25 years ago, only to find out he was disabled with Cystic Fibrosis. God truly blessed us in adopting him, and he had a stable home, with parents and family who loved him dearly. God took care of all the needs we had and it was all worth while. Those who are disabled, need homes desperately. Our son died almost two years ago, but we wouldn't have changed a thing. Please consider adopting the disabled, they will enrich your lives beyond belief!

6/23/2006 09:33:00 PM  
Anonymous William said...

A lot of this appears to be good information. Different kinds of people find different ways to make adoption a possibility for them. Some are - unfortunately - more expensive then others. I applaud you for taking the time to find ways to make adoption possible for those that don't have the money to go other routes.

Thank you.

~W

7/30/2006 04:21:00 PM  

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