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Thursday, June 14, 2007

Ruth Bell Graham (1920–2007)

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Ruth Bell Graham celebrated her 87th birthday on June 10. On June 13, she slipped into a coma after a bout with pneumonia. Today, she went to be with the Lord. She was married to Billy Graham for 64 years.

I join others around the world in thanking God for a life well lived in quiet, unashamed, faithful service to the Lord and his kingdom.

In a prepared statement Billy Graham said:

Ruth was my life partner, and we were called by God as a team. No one else could have borne the load that she carried. She was a vital and integral part of our ministry, and my work through the years would have been impossible without her encouragement and support. I am so grateful to the Lord that He gave me Ruth, and especially for these last few years we've had in the mountains together. We've rekindled the romance of our youth, and my love for her continued to grow deeper every day. I will miss her terribly, and look forward even more to the day I can join her in Heaven.

The following profile is found on the BGEA website:

Ruth Bell Graham, wife of evangelist Billy Graham, was born at Qingjiang, Kiangsu, China, on June 10, 1920, as Ruth McCue Bell. Her parents, Dr. and Mrs. L. Nelson Bell, were medical missionaries at the Presbyterian Hospital 300 miles north of Shanghai. As a young girl there in the small hospital compound, Ruth first sensed the great calling to abandon all for the sake of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Her childhood was spent on China's mission field with her parents and siblings Rosa, Virginia, and Clayton, surrounded by disease, despair, and the eventual disorder and chaos of civil wars. The suffering she observed only strengthened in her the conviction of mankind's need for the Savior. Until her early adult years, she dreamed of serving as a single missionary in a far corner of the world -- the mountainous nation of Tibet.

At the age of 13, Ruth was sent to boarding school in Pyongyang, in modern-day North Korea, where she studied for three years. Under terrible homesickness, Ruth learned to overcome the loneliness of being far from loved ones by taking care of the needs of others, a skill that would serve her well in the coming years.

Ruth completed her high school education in Montreat, North Carolina, while her parents were there on furlough. In the fall of 1937, she enrolled at Wheaton College, outside Chicago, Illinois, and three years later was introduced to "Preacher," the nickname other students gave the strapping Billy Graham from Charlotte, North Carolina.

The couple began courting, and so also began a struggle in Ruth between what she thought was her calling to the mission field and her blossoming love for the driven young evangelist. In late April 1941 after much struggling in prayer, Ruth realized her life's mission was to be bound up in Billy's passion for evangelism. Shortly after their graduation from Wheaton, the two were married in Montreat on August 13, 1943.

For a brief period, Ruth served as a pastor's wife in Western Springs, Illinois, before Billy moved on to serve as an evangelist with Youth for Christ; as president of Northwestern Schools in Minneapolis, Minnesota; and eventually as evangelist and president of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association.

With their increased time apart due to frequent preaching trips -- and with their first child on the way -- Ruth convinced Billy to move the family to Montreat, near her parents. Ruth's ministry flourished in the mountains of western North Carolina, where she built the family homestead and raised five children: Virginia (Gigi), Anne, Ruth, Franklin, and Nelson Edman (Ned). Ruth treasured her role as the strong woman behind "America's Pastor" and was Billy's closest confidant, most trusted advisor, and dearest friend. She loved to move behind the scenes, away from the spotlight, and helped him craft and research sermons and even books.

A gifted poet and writer herself, Ruth authored or coauthored 14 books, including Sitting by My Laughing Fire, Legacy of a Pack Rat, Prodigals and Those Who Love Them, and One Wintry Night.

For lots of links and updates, go to CT's Liveblog where Ted Olsen is working overtime.

5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks for the post.

God bless the Graham family. Job 19:25

Paul

6/14/2007 10:29:00 PM  
Anonymous Tullian Tchividjian said...

Thank-you Justin for your kind words regarding my grandmother. Please be praying (and asking others to pray) for my granddad and the rest of my extended family during this very difficult time. She was one of my closest friends and most reliable counselors throughout my life. I will miss her dearly.

To summarize what she meant to me and the type of woman she was, I want to share an excerpt from my upcoming book Do I Know God (Multnomah).

"When I pulled up to their modest log cabin, my heart started to race. I’ve been visiting my grandparents at their mountain home just outside Asheville, North Carolina, my whole life. But spending time in the home of Billy and Ruth Graham continues to be a powerful experience for me. My grandparents have been walking with God for more than seventy years, and they know him better than anyone else I know. Their simple, single-hearted devotion to their Lord saturates virtually everything they say and do. Every time I spend a few days with them, I leave with a renewed passion to know God the way they do.

I walked through the front door and immediately made my way back to their bedroom, where I knew they were waiting for me. My grandfather sat in a chair next to Tai Tai (it’s what I call my grandmother), who was sitting up in bed. Neither of them gets around well anymore, so they spend most of their days together in their bedroom reading, talking, and praying. When I walked into the bedroom, their faces lit up. After giving them both a hug and kiss, I sat down next to Tai Tai. They asked me about Kim, the kids, and the church. I asked them how they were doing.

As we talked, I noticed a large three-ring binder next to my grandmother. The open page contained eight or ten words in extremely large print. I asked her what it was. She told me that because her vision is so bad now, she had asked her assistant to type up all 150 psalms in big, bold letters and put them in three-ring binders. She pointed to her shelf, where there were at least ten more binders containing the rest of the psalms. Every day she sits in bed, incapable of moving on her own, meditating on and memorizing those psalms.

That image, testifying to her passion for God, affected me profoundly. My grandmother is in her late eighties, with severe physical limitations, but she still pursues fellowship with God with every last bit of energy she possesses. Because of her lifelong thirst for God, I consider Tai Tai to be one of the greatest Christians I’ve ever known.

After I kissed my grandmother good night and went to bed, I couldn’t fall asleep. I lay there thinking and praying, “Oh God, I want to desire you the way Tai Tai desires you. I want to experience the same holy passion for you that is so evident in her.”

6/14/2007 10:34:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My wonderful daddy died last August and his birthday was June 13. He would have been 87. His favorite song was "The Holy City" I miss him and my young daughter who died 6 months ago. I know Ruth Graham and my family are enjoying the freedom from this world and the fellowship with our Savior. That brings comfort and I know it will to the Graham family also.

6/15/2007 03:06:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Whosoever does the will of God is our mother and father. Thank you for being such persons.

God bless you!

Ulla

6/17/2007 07:13:00 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

God bless the Graham family in this difficult time. I lost my own grandmother June 10th of this year, which interestingly enough was on a Sunday. My grandmother loved the Lord as did Mrs. Graham. knowing this makes the loss a little easier.

Let us all strive to be what God wants us to be and in the end we will be together again in Heaven.

May God bless you....

Amy

6/23/2007 12:05:00 PM  

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