Wayne Grudem's book Evangelical Feminism and Biblical Truth : An Analysis of More Than 100 Disputed Questions is due out in November. I encourage you to order a copy.
Consider the following endorsements: Ligon Duncan: "You can write a QED at the end of this book. The debate is over." John Piper: “After the Bible, I cannot imagine a more useful book for finding reliable help in understanding God’s will for manhood and womanhood in the church and the home." J. I. Packer: "“This is the fullest and most informative analysis available, and no one will be able to deny the cumulative strength of the case this author makes." Joshua Harris: "If you’ve been sitting on the sidelines, if you’ve been indifferent on this issue, it’s time to care. The stakes are too high to remain uninformed and silent."
Wimps and Barbarians: The Sons of Murphy Brown, by Terrence Moore. An absolute must-read for men, fathers, and sons.
And here are a couple of helpful articles on the issue of women and modesty: Modeling Modesty, by Mary Mohler, and Modesty Checklist, by Carolyn Mahaney and her daughters.